The beginning of a new Journey!

This is a new journey for me, I don’t know a thing about blogging but I will learn as I go. My reason for starting this blog is to not only share my own experiences with domestic violence but to help others that have either been or are currently in a situation where domestic violence is present. I am in no way an expert or a qualified person to give advice but I have endured 10 years of abuse at the hands of a man that I once called my husband. My hope is to reach out to others and to give a voice to those who feel like they don’t have one. I am just an ordinary woman with an extraordinary story. Currently I am in the process of writing my book titled, “Memoirs of a Broken Woman.” However I am choosing to remain anonymous for the sake of my children. It is my story, my life, my scars and it is me. I can finally say that I am on the road to healing. Every day is a new day and I am grateful for every struggle, triumph, tear and smile. I am a different woman today. This is just my way of trying to make a difference!

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Domestic Violence Awareness Campaign

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In light of October being Domestic Violence Awareness Month I am challenging the Memoirs of a Broken Woman Community to build awareness and take action around ending domestic violence. You can do this in 3 ways: Speak Out Against Domestic Violence on all social media platforms, Share Your Story, or Wear Purple. Please feel free to take a picture of yourself wearing purple and post here (you do not need to show your face). If you would like to share you story privately please email me at memoirsofbrokenwoman@gmail.com and I will post it anonymously.

This challenge will last the entire month of October. Let’s turn this page into an amazing and powerful platform of incredibly testimonies of courage and bravery. My goal is to get at least 300 pictures of strong and beautiful women wearing purple. Help me reach that goal!!!

Sharing our story sets us free!

When we share our stories, we help each other heal.

Together we can make a difference!!

#speakout #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #NOMORE#Stopdomesticviolence

 #breakthesilence

Rise with Resilience

18581498_1307105542700025_7947340527916459426_n“We most often think of resiliency as a quality that helps us react to challenges, resiliency is also essential to the proactive aspects of our lives. It is the virtue that allows us to face the world head on like daring adventurers, to strike out into the unknown like courageous explorers. It is the quality that enables us to take risks, to reach out to others, and to live deeply and powerfully.

Without resiliency we forever dwell on our setbacks instead of making progress in our lives. The hurt from our past disappointments is so debilitating that we cannot muster up the courage and desire to take chances and seize opportunities; we’re afraid of experiencing pain and embarrassment. Without resiliency we become content to play it small; we hide from the world, keeping ourselves from hurt but also removing our chances of joy, excitement, and satisfaction. The fear of trying something and failing looms large in our minds. Yet we ignore the even bigger failure-the failure to make an attempt, to try and to risk.”

We are made in the image of God!

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In today’s society where glamour is instant and false ideas of perfection are easily attained through filters, apps and social media the truth of who we are is no longer valued. Everyone’s highlight reel is a constant misconception that life is perfect and your self-worth is based on your posts, likes, tweets and what is socially pinned. What I have realized is that no matter how hard I try to reach perfection I always pale in measuring up to the world’s beauty mirror and I get distracted and fail to see God’s beauty in me.

For far too long I spent many minutes, hours and days hating what I saw in the mirror. When I looked at my reflection all I could see is my fears, flaws and failures. I am slowly becoming comfortable in my own skin and not giving into the world’s definition of beauty.

When we realize that God sees us through eyes of love we are profoundly healed. When we begin to see others through God’s eyes of love, we bring healing and blessing to them. To be seen and loved, and to absorb the reality of that love, is to know ourselves for who we really are. And to know this is to be freed from self condemnation. To know this is to be made whole. We are made in the image of God. God says we are lovely and beloved, we are His.

 

Don’t Suffer In Silence

The nation will remain the land of the free only so long as it is the home of the brave.

Silence is the abuser’s most powerful weapon.When a victim remains silent, the abuse can continue and there is no consequence to the perpetrator. When victims break their silence, a supportive environment for them can be found.
Speak up. Speak out against domestic violence. You are not alone, don’t suffer in silence.